tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post6293217101874598660..comments2011-09-24T14:13:09.393+03:00a husbandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00332668923008049669noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-41838051029553643532011-09-24T14:13:09.393+03:002011-09-24T14:13:09.393+03:00women are wired difrently , its not a bad thing , we as men need to compromise when it comes to Sex :)RickStarhttp://onehotnight.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-63836470008589437762010-01-13T18:22:05.977+02:002010-01-13T18:22:05.977+02:00This issue is as old as men and women. Men want sex more and more often tham women do. There is no way to change it, so it is what it is. You may find ways to improve your sex life and make her more willing at times but it always boils down to the basic truth. Men want sex more than women.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-31170936916133704742008-12-17T17:14:00.000+02:002008-12-17T17:14:00.000+02:00interesting, however I have found that no matter how much effort is put into maintaining the love portion of the circle, it will never be enough to create a desire for a DAILY maintaining of the sex portion of the circle. "a big cosmic practical joke" is most accurate. Much love an respect for God, however, we gotta have a word about this when earthtime is over. Ill be sure to wear some hip armor!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-53287944764207315282008-08-02T06:33:00.000+03:002008-08-02T06:33:00.000+03:00Great post.<BR/><BR/>I really appreciate that you've framed this sexual difference as an OPPORTUNITY. <BR/><BR/>Grungor is very funny and largely hits the mark from what I've seen. <BR/><BR/>Women tend to have their heart connected to their genitals, while men can be quite disconnected in this regard. Sex for men can often simply be an unconscious act of releasing tension. There's nothing "wrong" with this, it's just a lower level of sexual relationship. <BR/><BR/>I've learned that when it comes to understanding differences between men and women, expanding the context from "men and women" to "masculine and feminine" is helpful, because men and women BOTH run varying degrees of both masculine and feminine energies, which often explains why man/woman stereotypes don't apply across the board. <BR/><BR/>I teach a model for understanding the differences between masculine and feminine and making these differences work FOR you in your relationship. It's called Gender Synergy and you can learn more on my site: www.MenMasteringRelationship.comCoach Justicehttp://www.menmasteringrelationship.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-70331796476286326542008-07-15T01:39:00.000+03:002008-07-15T01:39:00.000+03:00I appreciate your comment, and you're right, "If sex equals love then men who sleep around would seek a loving commitment with the women the sleep with."<BR/><BR/>But the thing is, I'm talking about "feeling" loved, not "equals love." Does that make sense? Men need sex to <I>feel</I> loved, whereas women often need <I>love</I> to want sex. Men often feel like they aren't being loved when the sexual relationship is rejected.<BR/><BR/>There's a whole other article on what you're talking about; about what <I>true</I> love is and how to fulfill it. What I'm talking about here is about simple feelings, and I'm most definitely (on this site) speaking about it within the commitment of marriage.a husband (the author)http://www.iamhusband.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-70061188170192254922008-07-15T00:58:00.000+03:002008-07-15T00:58:00.000+03:00Interesting theory. I agree that men usually place sex as the first priority in a relationship while for women usually place emotional closeness first. <BR/><BR/>But I'm still not sure why if men need sex to feel love, some men search for sex without any commitment and pornography. If sex=love, then men who slept around would seek a loving commitment with the women they sleep with.<BR/><BR/>I think sex brings my hubby and I closer, but I don't buy that sex is purely an expression of love for men.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-9405655961835937812008-07-01T23:51:00.000+03:002008-07-01T23:51:00.000+03:00where was this site before my divorce....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-89422159788838473012008-07-01T01:03:00.000+03:002008-07-01T01:03:00.000+03:00I love the line, need sex to feel loved, and need love to want sex. That is so true.<BR/><BR/>www.matthewsblog.waynesborochurchofchrist.orgAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-54331914830441309462008-06-30T01:17:00.000+03:002008-06-30T01:17:00.000+03:00Wonderful post as usual! Always making both halves think about our own relationships!~V~http://www.blogger.com/profile/05080643828009071621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-10764070341535410702008-06-27T07:29:00.000+03:002008-06-27T07:29:00.000+03:00you not only shed light on this topic for me but screwed the bulb in and flipped the switch to a light similar to the one that signaled Batman. I 've been re-learning this whole concept of marriage not being 50/50 but 100/100 and this post totally affirms that idea. I also hate this post because it reminds me just how selfish I can be when it comes to sex and loving my wife. But thank you.CoastalCalledcoastalcalled.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-219874887932551072.post-10620953860394112612008-06-26T18:36:00.000+03:002008-06-26T18:36:00.000+03:00Excellent post.<BR/><BR/> ~LukeLukehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07799632321310461828noreply@blogger.com