Comments on iamhusband.com: The Key To A Woman's Heart

Thank you for your words. It is true that over tim...

2011-03-10T04:02:50.135+02:00

Thank you for your words. It is true that over time things do get a bit,ummm, how shall I say it... Boring! It is not that the expected isn't appreciated, but it is just that - EXPECTED. What isn't expected is the random text or the flowers just because "you make my heart sing". Thank you "husband and author" for realizing that those little unexpected things do make difference.

I've hesitated from defending the woman I mentione...

2008-12-15T15:33:00.000+02:00

I've hesitated from defending the woman I mentioned in the post because it's not the point of the post, but as I said, this husband and wife were going through tough times in their marriage. And the tough times were mostly because of the husband's insensitivity. He was not very good at being sensitive to his wife and seeing what she needed.

The birthday card came when things were at their worst. She really needed a more supportive kind of love at that time, but all he knew how to do was the same thing he'd always done.

I apologize for not making that clearer, but as I do know this couple, it's been hard seeing these assumptions made about them here in these comments.

When's the last time that woman thanked her husban...

2008-12-15T12:42:00.000+02:00

When's the last time that woman thanked her husband for his consistency? I've got an unexpected place to put the card....

How awful for a husband to remember every year, to have that kind of reliability and consistency. And if he was dead, she'd bawl her eyes out every birthday because the card WASN'T there. Except the gratitude would be too late to do her any good

Some people.

My wife definitely loves that. I like things more ...

2008-12-07T19:05:00.000+02:00

My wife definitely loves that. I like things more planned out so I plan something unplanned for her.
Sometimes I will tell her that were going to do something and she will try and guess where, when, how long, what she has to wear. I tell her the bare minimum and keep her guessing.

While as a woman I do love gifts, expected and une...

2008-12-07T07:44:00.000+02:00

While as a woman I do love gifts, expected and unexpected, and this woman was bothered by the routine in their relationship, it still strikes me that her response to her husband was really ungrateful.

I often find that there are many things, material and immaterial, that my partner considers and thinks of for me, and his care and consideration is a great gift in itself.

The only problem is that women want both the unexp...

2008-12-07T06:03:00.000+02:00

The only problem is that women want both the unexpected gifts, AND the expected ones. I don't wanna know the length of time I'd be in the dog house if I got my wife flowers on a random day and then didn't on valentine's day.

this is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO true!!!

2008-12-07T03:10:00.000+02:00

this is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO true!!!