Comments on iamhusband.com: Write Your Wife Love Notes

Those are all great suggestions, and I've done...

2011-06-29T21:01:26.958+03:00

Those are all great suggestions, and I've done just about everyone of them again & again. But eventually, It hit me that she was not doing the same for me and -- at least as importantly, perhaps more so -- that her responses to such things from me were rarely more than perfunctory "thank yous", and too often, she'd respond with silence or, sometimes, irritation. When I'd try to discuss this issue, her response to that was to insist nothing was wrong at all & to leave it at that. While such acts of love should not be done as if they're some sort of "trade" that requires a direct return, there is a limit as to how long someone can continue searching for various ways to express love for a spouse that doesn't reciprocate, particularly one that doesn't even recognize the necessity of reciprocation. She is, by the way, from Japan, a country where few expect much emotional or even physical intimacy in marriage, especially after having kids. The fact that we discussed such issues a lot before marriage hasn't seemed to matter.

I found this website "enote.com" where y...

2011-05-28T14:49:05.769+03:00

I found this website "enote.com" where you can send anonymous emails to anyone. In the information age we are in, you can leave notes no matter where you are in the world. I am gone alot and this is a perfect substitute for the above suggestions while I am gone. The anonymity is what gives it the flair. Try it!

I like all these ideas... Esp. the Bible verses

2010-07-25T19:18:21.480+03:00

I like all these ideas... Esp. the Bible verses

I love the chocolate idea. My ex-boyfriend did so...

2009-10-21T08:06:32.144+03:00

I love the chocolate idea.

My ex-boyfriend did something similar eons ago. I still remember because it felt so great.

I like to bring a bar of chocolate to her at work ...

2009-09-23T01:39:18.660+03:00

I like to bring a bar of chocolate to her at work when she's busy meeting a client, then duck out before she's able to see me. She's allergic to soy, so I have to be very careful about the brand I buy, which (hopefully) lets her know I'm being really thoughtful :)

-Write out a prayer you've prayed for her and ...

2009-09-19T00:23:40.729+03:00

-Write out a prayer you've prayed for her and stick it in her Bible.

-Write her a love letter and stick it in the mailbox addressed to her.

-Write little notes of encouragement or love and stick them in the most ordinary places (silverware drawer, tape it around the blow dryer, her purse, deep in her wallet, etc.)

-Place notes along side items that are used less frequently, so she'll find it days or weeks later and you'll reap the benefits after you forget about it (ex. sewing kit, winter coat)

-Write a scripture verse, and let her know how it applies to her (ex. Psalm 18:22)

-Leave a note on her washed and folded laundry (done by you, of course)

Write on the bathroom mirror. Send random texts to...

2009-09-18T19:37:27.871+03:00

Write on the bathroom mirror.
Send random texts to her.
Send her an ecard.
Update your Facebook Status with a message about her.
Leave a note on your pillow so she'll find it when she wakes up.