March 14, 2011

Celebrate An Unofficial Special Day

As I mentioned around this time last year, celebrating the day you and your wife met can be a great way to create something special between the two of you. Especially if you aren’t in the habit of celebrating this special day, it will be a very sweet surprise to show your wife that you remember such a seemingly unimportant day.

This doesn’t have to stop with celebrating the day you met, however. I was thinking about all the unofficial special days a couple can share together. Don’t just remember the days your supposed to remember (the days Wal-Mart reminds you of two months ahead of time). Do your best to celebrate off-the-wall moments you and your wife have had over the course of your relationship.

Here are a few I’ve thought up:

  • Celebrate the day you first kissed.
  • Celebrate the day you found out you were going to be parents.
  • Celebrate the day her parents said it would never work out.
  • Celebrate the day your wife completed something big. The day she received her Master’s, for example.
  • Celebrate an awful event that you both went through that you laugh at now. That vacation where every possible thing that could have gone wrong did go wrong. Let it be a celebration of the ability you both have to get through anything together.

If you’re having trouble remembering the exact date, just do a little research. Usually you can get pretty close if you just think about the events that surrounded that date. Was it summer or winter? Were you celebrating someone’s birthday? Whose? If you remember it was the first Saturday you had off that June, you can use the internet or even the clock on your computer to go back and see what date it was. If all else fails, ask for your wife’s help in a casual conversation and then record it for later.

Just think of the fun you can have with this. Tell your wife that you’re going to take her out on Thursday to celebrate an important anniversary with her. If it’s an event she hasn’t thought about for years, she’ll be racking her brain to figure it out. But all the while, she’ll be loving you for it.

Surprise her with remembering an off-the-wall (but special) date and your wife will be touched that you’ve made that day an important one to remember.

2 comments:

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  2. Wow! I would love this but I can't imagine my husband ever actually doing this!! Even the day I got my Master's degree I only got a tounge-in-cheek card and it still hurts, he saw all I went though with grad school.

    This site is amazing, you are soooo correct about what's important to us!

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