Make Out With Your Wife

Sex is without a doubt the most fulfilling physical expression of love between a husband and wife. Speaking from a husband's point of view, it is impossible for me to think of anything else that is as pleasurable – mind, body, and soul.

But when was the last time you and your wife made out? Remember when passionate kissing played a very important role in your relationship? What happened to those days?

Very naturally kissing frequently takes a back seat to sex. Too often it becomes an item on the list of things to do to get sex; a box to mark on the Foreplay Checklist. Like I said, this happens naturally, it's supposed to be this way. There are few inhibitions between a husband and wife so there is no questioning how "far" you can go— or should go—so it's normal to just let things go. And there's nothing wrong with that.

But recently my wife and I have experienced the fun of passionate kissing again, and it's been great. It's reminded me of the importance of sexual passion outside of sex itself. This passion lights a flame inside of you and makes the sex that much more exciting, whenever the lovemaking may come.

When was the last time you made out with your wife? I challenge you to give this some quality time in your relationship. This is exciting and can spice things up a bit. Give your wife some passion, and keep her guessing by not going all the way right away. Tell her you just want to spend some time kissing, and then really kiss her.

But if she wants to keep things going, by all means, change the rules.